snark

Show me where it's written that my transition was supposed to fulfil other people's dreams? They may have dreamed of a passing trans woman under their thumb, but that wasn't my goal, and I feel like the social rejection for not passing was rude. As I say, I think that Wellington failed me, and not vice-versa. - I literally refuse to pass; my mental health team said that nobody would force me, so that means that the attitudes from VUW and the townspeople are bigoted and regressive. Why should I pass? Why should I make things comfortable for people that gave me the evil eye for daring to wear a dress and a beard, and turned their kids away from me on the streets? Why should I be a nice fairy for arseholes that didn't accept the new me? Why should I tuck my dick for dickheads?