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My MeToo moment (part 2)

  • Writer: Amanda Riddell
    Amanda Riddell
  • Jul 2, 2024
  • 1 min read

If I was to pinpoint when most of my colleagues and peers stopped seeing me as human, it would be when they chose to believe Stephen and Jake instead of me.

That's what happened regarding Stephen's accident: he jumped off the wall, but I felt like a lot of people blamed me for it. And when he said that Mum had abused him, people tended to believe him, but weren't too interested in believing me about the quasi-incest that went on between us. Regarding Jake, I don't think it was until late-2022 that people believed me. I'm guessing that he eventually told the truth. But, nevertheless, that's several years where most people either refused to speak to me, or believed whatever baseless rumours that my enemies were spreading. - Cis women tend to believe cis women, but that doesn't apply to trans people, even though we're statistically far more likely to be sexually assaulted (or generally assaulted). While I hate to speak for everyone, I'd say that trans Kiwis haven't had our MeToo moment yet. The new Counting Ourselves is supposed to be dropping soon, so that might move things along.

 
 
 

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Amanda Riddell
Amanda Riddell
Jul 02, 2024

To me, it's totally two-faced that my enemies turned up to that West Side Story screening, said that they didn't believe that people should be excluded, but actually were the people calling noise control to complain as I sang on my way to work. Wtf? Then they wonder why I wrote harsh reviews of their stuff?

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Amanda Riddell
Amanda Riddell
Jul 02, 2024
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Regarding Michelle and her desire to 'fix' me: that's actually really bigoted, and though everyone thinks I'm paranoid and insane, I'm really not. There really are a number of powerful people that use back channels to communicate with me because they're too afraid to be publicly associated with a trannie. My success is entirely in spite of what the mainstream wanted. People in Wellington hated me ... well 25% .. 75% voted yes on weed, even though the crossdresser was the one fronting that in Wellington! Put it this way, my first big chance to be on TV was On Weed with Paddy, and somebody cut me from that.


I played a song. He filmed it properly and got me to sign…


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