Gender expression

So, for those who are wondering, altering my gender expression might mean this: Telling me to dye my hair, or to style it in a certain way. Telling me to shave my body hair more frequently. Telling me to begin HRT. Telling me to get gender reassignment surgery. Telling me to only wear male clothes. So, yeah, if you're my girlfriend then you get input. Otherwise, particularly from employers or flatmates, it's really irritating.