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No, that's just gays trying to claim ace people. A bed partner that doesn't want to have sex: that's the 1960's for all sexes and genders. Until the post-modern era, that was quite common... Sir Paul wants to bring that back. It's more intimate than the cuddle parties Chlöe craves. - I'm not gay. I'm not a homosexual that performs penetrative sex acts with other men. Every time it's got to that point, I've refused the person. Same goes for women. They're the ones that want to penetrate me! There are instances where I'd identify as takatāpui, but they're not sexual. - Conan McKegg shared that idea, but Steve Barr's 'gay' allies have weaponised it. I'm not gay: there's no way to claim me. I'm obviously a fa'afafine, a whakawāhine, and I'm obviously asexual. Those are my defining sex and gender labels. Perhaps this is payback for when I said gay men had a hegemony in musicals... The gay scene is so fucking insular: that's why I'm not a regular. Lots of gays exist outside it -- all my friends are too complicated for it. Having chemsex and wanting to pound strange isn't everyone's sexual fantasy. - As I like to state, any non-hetero, non-homo, non-bi orientation is on shaky ground. The HRA doesn't explicitly protect them; sexual orientation is narrowly defined in law. Hence my revision of protecting sexual expression as well as gender expression. Collars at the office, kink displays of affection, drag... this net will protect those too.