Am I marriage material?

About that... y'know I am thinking about the legal surname change.

I haven't decided whether I want Michelina as a life name or as just a stage name yet. 👍 -

It was a hassle the first time, plus if I do another name change I want to change the gender marker as well.

I'm not particularly attached to Riddell, is what I'm typing.

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But I can see how the idea of making up a name is probably something that someone adopted would understand.

Meesh helped a lot with the name choice, though Michelina was pretty much my idea.

Either way, the name proves my point: Amanda means deserving of love, and that's what I feel people who deadname me are missing - the part of me that's lovely. ⚧️✌️ -

And yeah, I can't predict the future: it just seems that way. It's like a horoscope: most of the predictions turn out to be bullshit, but people remember the correct parts.

That's called confirmation bias.